From: 4theluvofmary

What can I say about mskathy?
My future gay boyfriend in our next lives,
she's the Ed to my Chase...or is it the Chase to my Ed?
Either way, we are like this *crosses fingers*

Who knew that when she started sending me PMs with me being a total idiot and forgetting to reply, leading to her thinking I didn't like her, only to reconnect later over my love of TTH...(run on sentence of my life) that we would discover how close we lived to each other. Only about a 20 minute drive, give or take how speedy I'm feeling at the time, Kathy is basically, in consideration to the FF world, right in my backyard.

We decided to meet up, despite my husband's concerns. "What if she's not really a she? What if you're really going to meet a 50 year old man?" I'm not kidding, he said that to me. I told Kathy, it's cool. She knows. And by the way, in case you were wondering, she is most definitely NOT a 50 year old man. lol I know y'all weren't really concerned.

So we got together at her place and she made me a cake. She fucking baked me a cake. One of the best cakes I've ever had. OMG with malted milk balls on top and chocolate upon chocolate and *drools* It was so good. I want some more of that cake...But not now, it's Kathy's birthday. I should be making her a cake. Only, I'm the type to just use a mix from a box. Not slave away and stay up too late to make sure everything turns out. That's why I love Kathy.

Ok, so I don't just love her for the cake. I love her because she cracks me up. She has a great sense of humor and can get me goin so easily (that sounds naughty). She also is so easy to talk to. I found myself telling her things I hadn't, and still haven't, shared with FF friends, let alone some RL friends. In that way, I feel very bonded to her.

She is my go to girl when I need a beta, the type that doesn't hold back honest opinion or constructive criticism to appease a friend. Kathy is a big reason why I finished my story, and why it was coherent and passed as readable. She even stayed up late on several occasions to look through chapters when I got struck with close to midnight inspiration (I still owe you Starbucks for that my dear).

And seriously, she's so thoughtful. For my birthday? I got sushi. She even drove down and took me to my fave spot, despite it being somewhat expensive and me telling her not to pay. So sweet. You better believe she's getting plenty of sushi from me in return. She can even feast from my body.

Hah, for reals though

Mmm...nomnomnom.

We dont' get together as often as I would like. RL is way too interfering. If I had it my way, we would meet up for coffee, sushi, drinks *cough*martinisandtwilight*cough* every week. Especially because out of the abundant (haha) friends I have where we live, she is my favorite and understands my weird obsession with a YA book written by a momo that went to school very close to where I currently live. lol

The point of all my ranting is this:

Kathy, thanks for being a great friend to me. Through ups and downs, happy times and emo times (was that a bit redundant? heh), I know I can always count on you. Even when I think you are too busy for me, or too cool, you effectively give me a good spanking to show me otherwise.

Thank you for being such a great friend. My wish for you is the BEST. BIRTHDAY. EVER. Filled with plenty of Ed, Chase, Martini Olive eyed Jasper, Rob pr0n, sushi, Sbux...and let's not forget SWEATER QUEEN! (long live her reign). I love you my gay bf. FELIZ CUMPLEANOS!

ps- I tried to keep the usage of "..." and starting a sentence with "And" to a minimum for you bc

I love you :) <3>

stephie aka 4tlom